What happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom

The room is your limit.

After the recent case of the girl who exposed her dignity, the tagline “What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom” should be imposed.
My active classmates who are constantly surrounded with the latest juice and gossips never fail to keep me informed. As people say, good things must be shared and they did just that.

I received the link and was hesitate to click on it thinking that it could be one of the viruses that have been spreading around. The link loaded almost too quickly, unlike any other link which usually takes around several seconds to load. Upon seeing the page, i was shocked. I couldn’t think of any reactions that could fit into that exact moment.


As i browse the page closely, i got extremely disgusted by their actions. The best part of all was when i found out that this picture was actually extracted from the girl’s personal blog. My reaction was “who in the right mind would do such a thing?” Then i realized that anything can happen. If she didn’t post those lewd pictures on her blog, something like losing her camera could be another cause to this outrageous outbreak.


The issue i wanted to touch on here is not so much about the fact that this girl is stupid but on the fact that people do things without thinking of the consequences or the worst case scenario and it takes this kind of “BIG” realization for them to see the silly mistakes they have created upon themselves.
Is she to be blamed?


My answer is --> not totally.

The poor girl is not the only one to be blamed. She just took the face for it. A criminal has to have a face and sadly, she took the fall.
Who else?

• Could be her parents, as we all know that when all else fails with a child, the parents could be one of the major contributor to that.

• Could be her friends, as we are brought up learning that peer pressure could be another major contributor to “silly mistakes”.

• Could be her lover. Girls at her age are vulnerable and they could be exposed to do out of their consent. They are a gullible piece of nature and they will do almost anything to make the other party happy.

So could any one of the reason stated above be the solution?


Is she a sole proprietorship or working with a partner in this one?

My assumption is that she just took the credit but she’s not the only “worker”.
We all have looks of disgust when we see the picture. We cannot stop the natural phenomenon of the human race. I am talking about the beauty of sameness here.


Regarding this issue, I beg to differ because for me, the next time i see her, i will thank her (not directly) for opening up the mind of the youths around to be careful with being TOO PERSONAL on their blog. Anything people can get access to; we have to stay to the restrictions.

I know it is tedious to be cautious all the time but being too ignorant, is not an option.

She made mistakes and we all know for a fact that we, the human kind are bound to make mistakes. The degree of the mistakes depends on one’s stupidity.

We need to give her a break after the entertainment she has presented us with. School was dull and monotonous without this kind of breaking news.

THANK YOU.

I wonder what happened to her. Some of my peers told me that she got expelled; others told me she got suspended, but whatever the case, think about this, she is going through a very hard time. Judging her will not make it any better for her.

This kind of situation always leave the weak soul to doing something even more stupid and when that happen, who’s to be blamed; US.

So as the saying goes, “Whatever happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.” The room is your limit. You could be 14 and be doing all this sh*t but no one has to know if you know how to reserve it.

This is my third blog entry and i must say that i am lucky with the inspiration part. I stayed true to my vow which is not bringing any negativity or hatred into my writings. I just wanted to touch on issue and probably more interesting things. I do not take stands in my writing as you can see so i will continue this “good work” (self-praise is good for one) and will continue to bring more remarkable and out of the ordinary piece of work for you. Until then, stay tune :)